I’m currently working with a student who has had an alternative educational path.  She really wants her colleges to see that she has had a regular social life.  While she is a very social person, she has had different kinds of social interactions from some of her mainstream peers.  When we actually talked about it, she came up with this brilliant and incredibly honest story that showed her in an imperfect light:  when she first got her cell phone, she sent out texts that were way too long.  Her friends ribbed her for it and she quickly adjusted.  Like other aspects of growing up, this student has quickly learned how to navigate the ins and outs of social life.  She is writing a poignant story that traces her own, unique path.

Although it may not always be appropriate to begin your essay with a story of how you goofed, colleges want to see your growth, maturity and insight.  Ultimately, you want to show yourself in a flattering light.  The path, however, may not be direct.  When you brainstorm your essay topics, don’t rule out anecdotes that show some of your vulnerabilities, especially if they fit into your personal hero’s story.

Happy writing!

-Dr. Kirschner